Signs of a
Signs of a cheater can vary widely from one person to
another, so it is very important that this article will be
giving basis on how can one know that his/her partner is really
cheating or not.
Loving someone has its own risks to take, thus, making
humans more susceptible to getting hurt. One of the most
hurtful things your partner can do to you is cheating or should
I say infidelity. Infidelity is one of the most feared problems
in relationships. Yes, having an infidel partner really sucks
and makes you feel so stupid because cheating took hold of my
life before. I wasn’t even aware that it was happening already.
I was going on with my life blissfully but didn’t expect that
there was something wrong; believing everything was going
smoothly between us. And then one day, I was so shocked. It was
over. Without even explaining what went wrong. I was so
confused, sad, angry, betrayed and abandoned. I don’t want you
to experience what I have felt for I believed that it’s better
to know than to end up being the last to know. So, to avoid
such pain, here are some helpful signs to spot the ratty
boyfriend/ girlfriend before you let yourself fall for all his
SPOTTED: Emotional and Physical
Does your partner all of a sudden call you less frequently?
Has he has been a bit off with you lately? Can you still
remember the last time you were intimate with each other? Has
your partner has been a bit cold with you lately?
Emotional and physical distance is considered as the number
sign of cheating. This includes your partner’s attitude towards
you changed gradually or he/she is less interested in you or
he/she became withdrawn from you. Your partner will try to
shove you away by evading you, disregarding you, closing off
communication or walking away.
SPOTTED: More Time Out
The cheating partner usually spends more time outside. Most
of his/ her excuses for being out are reports over times, long
working hours, meetings, business trips, or even trainings and
SPOTTED: Dress to Impress
There’s nothing wrong with grooming and wanting to look good
but when it’s a sudden change of looks, be careful. Your
partner might probably start to make an effort in the looks
department. This is one definitive signs of a cheater. Men and
women tend to buy themselves new clothes when they are
interested to someone. These actions only shows that they want
to look good for their new interest. Sudden change in physical
appearance not only covers the dressing part, but also giving
time and effort in becoming fit like weight reduction, works
out at the gym and other sudden fitness deeds.
SPOTTED: Strange Calls, Texts and
Of course, if you are having an affair, you tend to stay in
touch with that person. Now, pay attention to the way he/she
answers the call and observe how he/ she respond on phone calls
or even texting. He/she will show signs of being avoidance when
answering phone calls. If you will check his phone, you will
notice that all of his sent items are deleted; even received or
dialed calls are squeaky clean.
Another scenario is when you suddenly walk into the room;
he/she closes chat windows or the laptop screen itself and
seems not at ease. Is he/she trying to conceal his/her
communication with someone? Possible. If curiosity gets the
better of you, try to search up history to see if you can find
somewhat and if it has been deleted, you know he/ she has
something to hide.
There are also other signs of a cheater. Those signs written
above are just common signs. If your partner does not show any
signs that are said above, it does not guarantee that he/ she
is not cheating. It is only you who can see, feel and discover
the deceptions by reading between the lines of your
relationship’s unique situation.